Jupiter/Venus conjunct is "open-ended" , "don't tie me down" love. And when placed in the 11th house, it takes on some of the qualities of Aquarius and makes the love life have a Uranus quality to it.Uranus/Neptune conjunct in the 7th house.
Neptune in 7th often speaks of an attraction to people who are "open-ended" or are prone to tell "white lies".
Whilst the Uranus conjunction emphasizes the nature of the partner not being consistent or full of surprises etc.
She has Mars in 7th and I have Mars conjunct the 7th house. This also may suggest that she is attracted to people who are independent or not into making "we" decisions.
The conjunction to Uranus(independence) and Neptune(open-ended) works with this.
Even though the 7th is really all about "us", the conjunction of Neptune to all those planets suggests that the partners she is attracted to conceal/hide things a lot(at worst). Or are just chilled and easy-going(at best). And I think she got the former rather than the latter.
It's really weird because Moon/Pluto are conjunct in the 5th- it is in the love-life that she seeks to be nurtured and loved in a profound and deep way.
Though Moon is in 5th and certainly adds spunk and a fiery nature. The conjunction to Pluto dilutes that a great deal and makes relationships a lot more serious i.e romance and flirtation are often expected to lead to "more".
This "hunger" for love is emphasized by Chiron in 1st squaring the Sun/North node in the very public 10th.
I wonder if she goes around telling people of her woes in relationships?That Mercury in Aquarius and the 9th house emphasizes communication-even with strangers.
So people will often see her pain, suffering or lack of confidence(Chiron in 1st) as a part of her projected image (square to Sun in 10th) i.e "woes me. Why do people take advantage of me?" etc.